Monday, February 16, 2009




My neighbor, Clara, who is 97 years young and an amazing woman was taken by ambulance to the Harris Hospital emergency room Friday morning. I was looking out my front window when I noticed a policeman pulling up in front of Clara's house. I quickly put my contacts in...put on some slippers and ran over to check on Clara. Moments after I walked into the house...MedStar showed up to take her to the hospital. Seems Clara woke up and was having trouble breathing.

Clara is a special neighbor to all of us. She lives alone (can you believe it)....she does have a nephew who lives in an apartment at the back of Clara's house who watches after her, but Clara insists on doing for herself. That includes making meals.....making her bed (takes her over an hour)....cleaning house and anything else she needs or wants. She recently stopped driving. Yes, she has a valid driver's license still. Scary part is she can't hear....and her reaction time is very minimum, but she was out there on the streets driving to the grocery store and to the beauty parlor up until last fall. I sighed a sigh of relief when I found out she stopped driving. She knows she shouldn't drive, but she said just knowing her license does not expire for another year makes her feel good.......actually her word was 'proud'.

Clara wears one of those medical alert buttons around her neck and she used it Friday morning when she woke up having trouble breathing.......BUT not before she:
(1.) Gave herself a sponge bath
(2.) Brushed her hair
(3.) Put some money in her wallet from her safe
(4.) Changed into her 'special going to the hospital silk pajamas'
(5.) Opened the door for the Medstar ambulance
She was blessed that she was not having serious health issues that morning...ie heart attack or stroke.

Clara was taken to probably one of the best hospitals in the state of Texas, but even in the best hospital it does take time to figure out what is happening. After test, after test....and hours upon hours later....they took her upstairs into a private room. She arrived at the hospital at 7:30 in the morning and finally went to her private room at 9:30 at NIGHT..! She was so tired, but really never complained. She did let the nurses know she was having a problem with her bladder and she was not happy about that as she was miserable. She was so cute telling all the nurses who were trying to help her in and out of bed...."I can do it myself. I don't need help!!" Miss independence!!! Strong.....determined.....and knows what she wants!!
I stayed with her all day and once she was settled in her room I left the hospital to go home. Upon leaving the hospital I could not find my car and it took me a long time to find it. All the parking structures looked the same and I was lost. Fortunately for me Clara's sister in law was driving me around looking for my car until we found it!! Yay!!


Early Saturday morning I was back at the hospital checking on Clara. She was having breakfast and looked so good. We waited for family to arrive and for the doctor to arrive. All tests were in and her heart and lungs were clear. The only thing the doctors could determine was wrong was her shoulder had been acting up and caused her not to feel 100 percent. She has a shoulder with extreme arthritis in it.....the joint is swollen with fluid and all the surrounding area is black and blue. The joint caused her heart enzymes to be higher than normal...therefore tests had to be run on her heart. There is not much the doctors can do for Clara's arthritis. Steroids and other drugs would cause Clara more discomfort and could lead to worse health issues. They did suggest she have the joint drained of the blood...but knowing Clara...that won't happen!!


I want to be just like her when I grow up.....she's a pistol and loves life!! A sweet little 'old' lady who has won the hearts of neighbors...family.....friends......and the entire staff at Harris Hospital who helped her for two days. She is a delight and I love her very much.








Tuesday, February 10, 2009


I have been going through withdrawals....literally!! My computer caught a virus and my computer shut itself down.....a trip to Best Buy fixed everything but my pocketbook!!! Even though I had a warranty....the cost of getting the computer fixed was closed to $2oo. Yikes!!

It has been almost a month since I have been able to "play" on the computer. No postings....no emails....no following other blogs. I have so much catching up to do!! I know I had been spending way too much time of the computer.......guess the virus worked in a good way as I have been able to take care of a few things I had pushed asided. Yay!!

This is the week leading up to a wonderful holiday........Valentine's Day. What a yummy, warm, fuzzy holiday.......love it!! You don't have to have a 'special' person in your life to celebrate this fun holiday. You just need friends and family who love you and whom you love back!!

Monday, January 12, 2009

Just found out........!!

Today I found out that my house was actually built in 1918...making it 90 years old!!
I think she needs a celebration held in her honor!! What do you think??

Friday, January 9, 2009

Look how different my little 1919 house looks over the years.......


2008
This picture was taken in the spring of the year....lots has changed since then!!


2006
This is the year the house was remodeled. Side windows added beside the front door and a new walk way. New electrical...new plumbing...a bathroom added...a walk in closet added...new kitchen and new baths....interior walls changed...the back porch was converted into a laundry room...side windows and pocket doors discovered under older remodeled jobs. Look at the garden...or lack of it!!


2002
Can you believe this.....my house at one time was PINK!!! It knew I was coming!!


1995
Oh my goodness....you've come a long way baby!!!!

Monday, January 5, 2009

My goodness....doesn't time just seem to fly past you? Already it is January 5th....! Seems like it was just Thanksgiving!! I am looking forward to some warmer weather....or at least warm weather that stays around longer than 24 hours! Texas weather is funny. One day it can be eighty something and the very next day down in the forties!! I am trying to adjust, but it has been a slow thing.......I have been doing a "get warmer and stay dance" all weekend long.

Walking around in my yard has been rather depressing for me. My once gorgeous flower beds have become dormant and very much void of beauty. As I said in another posting.....it is hard for me to adjust to the ugliness of winter coming from a state that flower beds usually remain beautiful year long. My garden guru.....my Mother.....keeps reminding me that this too shall pass in just a short period of time and before I know it spring will be here and the garden will come alive once again!! I know she is right.......but it truly cannot come fast enough for me.

Today it is raining and very cold outside. Just Saturday it was in the 80s! There is a cold sleeting rain called for most of the day.....where did the sun go??? I guess I will continue to do my 'dance' in hopes that the sun comes back!! We might even get a few snow flurries here in Fort Worth! There is a saying here........"if you don't like the weather...just wait five minutes...it will change!" I have the heater on......the oven on.....and I am very much toasty warm!! I am bound and determined to stay warm today no matter what! I know I won't be going outside today that is for sure...the temperature keeps dropping!!

January is a time of reflection for the year that just passed. The first thing that comes to my mind is how incredibly fast it passed me by!! In a blink of an eye...it was gone!! 2008 was a good year for me....bringing lots of good memories my way. Yes, and like other years....there were some awful memories that came my way as well. My Mother always says..."trials always make you stronger"......well, I am a very strong person if this little saying is true!! I choose to press forward leaving behind things which pain my heart.......I am looking forward to a wonderful new year.......a year which will bring new memories and pages in 'my book'. If I should encounter a bump or two....well, I guess I will become 'stronger' still.....

My children are all doing fine. I hear from them often and through the wonderful experience of 'blogging'....I am able to keep in contact with them even more so!! Whatever did Moms who live states away from family do before children created a blogspot where they posted daily happenings and pictures??? My little grandchildren seem to grow by leaps and bounds. Little Becky just turned a year old on December 27th....hard to believe yet true!! I need to post the new pictures I have of them and will do that this week.........until then just click on the girl's blogs and see the pictures they have posted on their blogs! Despite what is taking place in my children's lives....they seem to be holding on stronger than ever.....that is a true blessing from God to a Mother's heart. Each day is a gift.......